Thursday, March 10, 2016

Answering the Question: "Who Are You?"

For many people, an answer to the question “who are you?” often results in a response involving a vocation or something they do which is very important in their lives. In other words “who are you?” gets this type of response:

“I’m an electrician.”
“I’m a manager.”
“I’m a soccer player.”
“I’m a musician.”
“I run a small business.”

Notice, however, these responses do not actually answer the question “who are you?” rather, they tell us what the person does.

This reality caught my attention because I’ve noticed—even though I know better—I typically do the same thing. My identity is wrapped up in being a pastor of a church. In fact, I hate to admit it because it’s embarrassing, but in my very honest moments I have had to acknowledge to myself that much of my sense of self-worth is tied to being a pastor.

So, in my mind, the equation sometimes tends to work like this: If things are going well at the church and it is relatively healthy, I’m a worthwhile and valuable person. On the other hand, if things are not going well at the church and it is going through a season of not being particularly healthy my value as a person is diminished.

(Please understand, I realize this is unhealthy and incorrect thinking. I am not endorsing this type of thinking I am simply trying to honestly identify it.)

I am reminding myself today that my identity is not based on what I do—neither is yours, by the way. Our identity is rooted in the fact that we were lovingly, intentionally created by God. We do not deliver a higher level of performance in order to have greater worth and value. We already have worth, value and dignity because we are created in the image of God, himself.

“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:13-14

“So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” Genesis 1:27

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