We Choose How We Respond

For the most part, we choose how we respond to what happens in life. In other words, we are not forced by the circumstances of life to think, speak and behave in certain ways. Rather, we choose our response.

I realize there are some really bad circumstances which can happen sometimes. And I understand that when incredibly difficult circumstances occur this is not inconsequential. The circumstances of our lives matter. I have great empathy for this reality. However, it is still true that, in general, we choose our response.

This can be a difficult idea to wrestle with because it takes away some of our excuses. If we admit we have chosen our response then we cannot claim circumstances dictated that we respond in negative, hurtful, unwise and unhealthy ways. We must accept responsibility.

With God’s help we can choose—even in difficult circumstances—to respond to life with love, respect, grace, joy, patience and kindness. I want to make these kinds of positive choices.