Love Is More "Commitment" Than "Feelings"

When a person understands love to be defined by feelings and emotions then the focus tends to be inward. The key question is: “How do I feel?”  When a person understands love to be defined by a commitment to the well-being of another the focus tends to be outward. The question becomes: “How can I serve the person[s] I love?” This more closely resembles the kind of love Jesus taught and modeled.