Saturday, February 14, 2015

Love Makes Us Vulnerable - Choose Love Anyhow

There are people who do not want to be vulnerable to pain or heartache and, yet, they also want
genuine love. This is not possible. If we love anyone our hearts will be vulnerable.

The alternative to love—and the vulnerability that comes with it—is to allow our hearts to become hard, calloused and cynical. This is a path we can choose, however, it will diminish who we are as people, it will diminish our capacity to be caring human beings, and it will diminish God’s authentic work in us.

To have a tender, caring, loving heart is an important part of what it means to be alive. To have a cold, hard heart is the onset of death.

I believe it is better to suffer some pain and some heart ache—even though it can be incredibly difficult—yet still have a heart that is open, tender, soft and caring; a heart that is capable of love. That means we will have to be ready to experience the pain and keep moving forward, anyhow.

We were created for life. We were created for love.

Happy Valentine’s Day, my friends!

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