When giving counsel there is a basic mistake I have
witnessed on a number of occasions in myself and in others. The mistake is—in our
admirable desire to help—we often have a tendency to speak too soon.
We will be more helpful to those who seek our help
if we will listen more. Allow the person who is seeking assistance to speak.
Resist the urge to jump in right away with advice or opinions. Ask questions
and listen to the responses.
One of the most fundamental gifts we provide to
those who seek our advice is the willingness to let the person be heard by
someone who genuinely cares about him/her.
“To answer before listening-- that is folly and
shame.” Proverbs 18:13
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