God Has A Purpose For Every Person

My daughter, Rachel, has a genetic condition that is known as Smith-Magenis Syndrome.  This results in certain challenges both physically and mentally, including diminished intellectual capabilities.

Her condition might lead some people to conclude that Rachel has very little, if any, meaningful contribution to make to our world.  I certainly understand and would not argue with the fact that her challenges limit the kinds of contributions she will be able to make in life.  For example, she will not offer any new and advanced surgical procedures to the world of medicine—but frankly none of the rest of us are likely to do that, either.

However, I would argue that Rachel’s limitations do not mean that she does not contribute to the world.  And, I have found that she has a way of making contributions to the lives of others that “regular” people are not likely to make.

For example, a friend of mine went through a period where he wasn’t at church very often.  One Sunday when he attended a service, Rachel greeted him with genuine joy and excitement, giving him one of her patented Rachel mega-hugs.  We know these greetings from Rachel are genuine because if she is not joyful and excited about seeing someone she, typically, ignores the person. 

He has told me several times that that was one of the most meaningful things that he experienced at church.  I believe part of the reason it was so meaningful for him is because he knew that the excitement of seeing him was authentic on her part and because of his appreciation for the unique person that Rachel is.  I would suggest—based on his comments to me—that was a positive contribution to his life that no other person could have made.

I will admit that I have wondered why God made Rachel the way that he did.  But I never question whether she is worthwhile and valuable.  She is a priceless gift of God in my life (while occasionally irritating me, as all children must do), the lives of my family, and the lives of many who know her.  

I love her just the way she is.

It’s important for us not to be too presumptuous about making determinations regarding which persons are valuable and which persons are not valuable.  Some people definitely have greater capabilities than others but I do not believe they have greater value in God’s eyes.  And God has a purpose for each one.