Do you think of yourself as an ambassador?

 

Is it time for reconciliation?

Are You Willing To Mend Broken Relationships?

Recently, someone told me a story about putting hard feelings aside and making an effort to mend a long-time broken relationship with a family member. It was encouraging to hear. Fortunately, this effort at restoration was successful and a relationship that had been broken for many years was restored. In this particular story—although the person who initiated the restoration did not realize it when he reestablished contact—the timing was very good. Had he delayed the opportunity for this type of healing would have no longer been possible.

I realize we cannot reconcile with people if they are unwilling to reconcile. It requires a willingness on the part of all those involved to repair a damaged relationship. We cannot force people to enter into fellowship against their will. But hopefully, as far as it depends on us, we will be willing to offer the hand of peace, fellowship, grace and love.

Reconciling The Past -- Audio Podcast

Luke 19:1-10

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Why Should I Have To Forgive First?

Sometimes when we realize that we need to make the first move in trying to reconcile a broken relationship, we feel frustrated and think, “Why should I have to be the one to make the first move? Why should I forgive first, instead of him/her?”  In those times, it can be helpful to remember that you and I are not forgiving first.  Jesus forgave first.

The Mature Person Is The One Who Initiates Reconciliation

In a loving relationship, it is the mature person who will initiate reconciliation, if that becomes necessary.  The mature person will initiate the reconciliation even if the mature person was not responsible for whatever has happened that has brought about the need for reconciliation. You say, “Well, I’m the mature person and I’m not going to do it. No way!” Then understand that reconciliation will probably not occur.