Rachel
and I were wandering around the mall, today, looking for the Lego store. I didn’t really know where it was but I kept
guessing and walking here and there.
Rachel
said, on several occasions, “Let’s look at a directory.”
But I
kept roaming about thinking it was probably right around the next corner.
Suddenly
I began to chuckle because I realized we were having one of those experiences people
frequently mention when they talk about the differences between men and women. We weren’t driving in a car, lost, while I
refused to stop and ask for directions.
But the situation was similar. We
were meandering around the mall and I didn’t know where the Lego store was
located but I didn’t simply look at the mall directory.
I
should say, in fairness to myself, that I was actually keeping my eyes open for
a mall directory station while I was also looking for the Lego store. I wasn’t opposed to consulting the directory.
On the other hand, though, I was not
walking directly to one of the mall entrances which is where, I knew, a mall
directory station would definitely be located.
I kept
acting very confident and trying to give the impression that I was pretty sure
I knew where the Lego store was located.
But even though Rachel is mentally challenged she knew that I didn’t
really know. Rachel’s intellectual
capabilities may not be the same as a typical 24 year old, but she still seems
to have a tremendously acute understanding of the times I don’t know what’s
going on, even though I’m acting like I know what’s going on.
“Can we
just look at a directory?” she continued to ask. My attempt to act confidently knowledgeable
about the situation was not fooling her.
Finally
I broke down, walked to a directory, then—armed with accurate information—quickly
and confidently walked straight to the Lego store.
Every
now and then Rachel will give me one of those “I-told-you-so” comments. But I think, in this case, she was so happy we
were no longer wandering in the retail wilderness that she resisted the impulse
and just enjoyed—finally!—being at the store.
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