*POSTED: In order to have a genuine sense of hope we have to believe
that the future holds something good and positive. “It is a peculiarity of man
that he can only live by looking to the future.” Victor Frankl
The following question came in response to the post, above...
Question: What
happens when someone believes the future just holds more of the same?
The idea that the future “just holds more of the same” would
actually be a comfortable place for some people. But it’s clear that that’s not the sense in
which the questioner is expressing this thought. The idea that the future just holds more of
the same would, frankly, be anything but hopeful for a lot of us.
If we don’t want the future to hold more of the same, the
bottom line is that we have to be willing to do different things. I’m specifically referring to “actions.” For the future to be different, we have to be
willing to take new actions. We have to
try things we haven’t tried before. All
the clichés—like “be willing to move out of your comfort zone”—that we’ve heard
before apply here. (It’s helpful to
remember that sometimes a “saying” becomes cliché because it’s true.)
So, we have to be willing to take some different actions
that might feel risky to us. (By the
way, I’m not talking about doing things that are “risky” in the sense of being
illegal or life threatening, but risky in the sense of being actions we haven’t
taken before.)
In fact, it’s very likely that the future will, in fact, hold more of the same
unless we take some new actions.
When it comes to making changes in our lives—changes that
move us into a future that’s not just the same as the past—there are factors
that can make a difference, factors like thinking, planning, learning new
things, and making new commitments. But
at the end of the day action trumps everything else. The actions we take will be the biggest
factor in moving us toward a different future.
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